Exploring BDSM With Your Partner

BDSM stands for bondage, dominance, submission and masochism. Yes, it sounds scary but it’s not actually. If you and your partner are open to trying new things, BDSM is certainly a fun road to go down. Of course, you and your partner should have an agreement beforehand on what side of BDSM you want to try. There are levels of it. For instance, there’s light BDSM where it’s just basic restraints with extra toys as stimulants. Then there is the more extreme BDSM where you explore more complex bondage while exploring orgasm denial as well as other BDSM kinks. 

There are sex toys like vibrators, dildos, penis rings and whips you can incorporate into BDSM. You can view more sex toys in Malaysia and see more choices you can choose from to add to your fun experiment. However, if you or your partner feel uncomfortable and decide not to proceed or do it again, respect their decision and stop whatever it is. That is the most important part of keeping a relationship healthy for both of you. Respect each other’s decisions in anything both of you decide to try later on i the relationship too. Communicate with each other and tell each other what you like and what you don’t like. Thus, here are a few things you need to know when you’re trying BDSM:

Establish Boundaries

Whether or not you’re trying this with your significant other, there need to be boundaries. As mentioned earlier, communicate about what you like and don’t like. In BDSM, there are a lot of things like hair-pulling or spanking that a lot of people like. When done properly, it wouldn’t be painful and it’d only add to the sexual satisfaction. Nonetheless, there are some people who do not prefer that and would rather stick to the bondage or dominance and submission play. This is why you and your partner should talk about it beforehand to know what you can or cannot do. What is acceptable and what is off-limits. Remember that just because you’re in a relationship, it is not a free pass for consent. So there always needs to be communication and agreement. 

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Establish A Safeword

Safewords are for when you think your partner is going too far or you can’t take it anymore and you want to stop. A safeword should be agreed upon beforehand and once it is said, any activity should stop immediately. If you’ve agreed on a safeword, respect it. Moreover, don’t make it too long or hard to remember. Stick with something short or catchy like “cherries” or use the name of colours like “red” to indicate you want to stop.

Know The Precautions And Do Your Research

This is fairly important, especially when you are exploring BDSM. This is because there have been cases of BDSM going terribly wrong. So, make sure you know the do’s and don’ts well enough before even stepping foot into that territory. Also, since BDSM is considered rough sex and there is a dominant and submissive. The dominant, or the giver of the relationship, should always be knowledgeable about aftercare. Aftercare is when everything is done and you make sure your partner is well taken care of. This includes cleaning, comforting or even cuddling. This is the proper attitude of a dominant. 

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