Orang tua cakap “Seorang emak boleh jaga 10 org anak, tapi 10 org anak belum tentu boleh menjaga seorang emak”
Mungkin dari segi pengisian emosi dimana emosi kanak kanak lebih mudah ditebak berbanding emosi orang dewasa kah?

Keputusan mempunyai ‘berapa’ orang anak adalah milik kita
Dimana keputusan itu akan mempengaruhi banyak aspek dalam kehidupan kita
Contohnya masa bersantai di rumah..hihi
Atau lebih tepat, masa untuk melakukan apa yang kita gemari
Ianya berkadar songsang dengan jumlah anak anda

Dan saya ada beberapa orang anak termasuk Lunatots Cheras, Maju Junction, Amcorp Mall dan Penang
Saya sibuk di luar dan penat di dalam
Sampai tiada masa dan tenaga untuk melakukan perkara yang saya suka
Iaitu ‘menulis’

Dunia Parenthood? Jom kita ulas dalam ‘jokes’ dibawah..hihi
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Yes, parenthood changes everything. But parenthood also changes with each baby. Here are some of the ways having a second and third child differs from having your first:

Your Clothes

1st baby: You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as your OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.
2nd baby: You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.
3rd baby: Your maternity clothes ARE your regular clothes.

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Mommy Luna:
1st baby : Ada sehelai baju mengandung yang dipakai semasa bulan bulan terakhir mengandung ..hihi

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2nd baby : Ada berhelai helai baju dan seluar yang besar dan buleh dipakai jika tembam nanti..hihi (persediaan awal?)

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3rd baby : Korek kotak, cari pakaian yang bersesuaian dengan etika semasa

The Baby’s Name

1st baby: You pour over baby-name books and practice pronouncing and writing combinations of all your favorites.
2nd baby: Someone has to name his or her kid after your great-aunt Mavis, right? It might as well be you.
3rd baby: You open a name book, close your eyes, and see where your finger points.

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Mommy Luna :
1st baby  : Nama dijumpai dalam Buku Panduan Mengandung Ibu Muslim hadiah Ayang – ZIKRY. Disediakan dari awal kehamilan
2nd baby: Nama dijumpai dalam surat khabar bahagian sukan..hihi – DZAKWAN. Tidaklah, nama diilhamkan oleh ibu dan ayah beliau sehari sebelum kelahiran dengan gesaan “Cepatlah bang, nama tiada lagi ni..hihi”
3rd baby : Nama sudah difikirkan dari sekarang – ZAKRI, FAHRY-kenapa-semua-nama-lelaki?

Preparing for the Birth

1st baby: You practice your breathing religiously.
2nd baby: You don’t bother practicing because you remember that last time, breathing didn’t do a thing.
3rd baby: You ask for an epidural in your 8th month.

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Mommy Luna:
1st baby   : Lihat video caesarian, kakak tu senyum je semasa operation. Kenapa saya menggigil?
2nd baby : Bercita cita mahu melahirkan normal, ke bilik operation jua akhirnya. Saya masih ingat ‘sunyinya’ dioperate tanpa suami disisi-keh keh!
3rd baby : Dah ada schedule, minggu ke 37 dah perlu di operate .. Kasian baby kecil lagi dah kena keluar. Doktor outweightkan, lebih kasian jika risiko rahim mommy pecah..hihi eh kenapa bubuh hihi disini

The Layette

1st baby: You pre-wash your newborn’s clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby’s little bureau.
2nd baby: You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.
3rd baby: Boys can wear pink, can’t they?

Mommy Luna:
1st baby : Baju dah siap awal awal, siap dengan kemeja-bila-nak-pakai-weh..ekeke
2nd baby : Keluarkan dari kotak, asingkan dan basuh semula untuk kegunaan generasi mendatang
3rd baby : Lokasi kotak yang tidak dilabelkan perlu dikenal pasti..hihi

Worries

1st baby: At the first sign of distress–a whimper, a frown–you pick up the baby.
2nd baby: You pick the baby up when her wails threaten to wake your firstborn.
3rd baby: You teach your 3-year-old how to rewind the mechanical swing.

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Mommy Luna :
1st baby   : Panik + stress + uwaa…
2nd baby : Lebih tenang dan bila sikecil merengek, simptom2nya lebih mudah dikesan
3rd baby : Lebih ketenangan dunia akhirat harapnya..hihi

Sleeping

1st baby: Sleeps in your bedroom for the first six – eight weeks
2nd baby: Sleeps in your bedroom for the first two weeks
3rd baby: Goes right from the hospital nursery into their own room

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Kesemua anak akan tidur bersama kami (diatas katil yang sama) sehingga usia mereka 5 tahun, insyaAllah
Katil-jenis-apakah-yang-muat-semua?
King + single + queen yang dicantumkan?

Baby Book

1st baby: You religiously make entries every day, carefully noting the number of spit-ups and bowel movements for the first year
2nd baby: You enter a few facts each week but stop after 6 months
3rd baby: You buy the book but enter the child’s name, birth weight, and length on the first page

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Hahaha..gelak pula!
Dari baby 1st sehinggalah yang 2nd, Baby Book mereka tak siap siap
Saya siapkan masa mereka di kolej nanti, buleh?

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Diapering

1st baby: You change your baby’s diapers every hour, whether they need it or not.
2nd baby: You change their diaper every 2 to 3 hours, if needed.
3rd baby: You try to change their diaper before others start to complain about the smell or you see it sagging to their knees.

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Mommy Luna :
1st baby  : Sayang nak tukar diapers sebab sekeping RM1..ekeke
2nd baby : Sangat gigih menukar lampin selang 2 jam sekali sebab pakai lampin buleh basuh..yabedabedu..hihi
3rd baby : Cloth diaper anak pertama masih elok, diturunkan ke generasi akan datang..alhamdulillah

Activities

1st baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics, Baby Swing, and Baby Story Hour.
2nd baby: You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.
3rd baby: You take your infant to the supermarket and the dry cleaner.

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Mommy Luna : Keh keh…semuanya sama. Tiada Baby Gymnastic dan Baby Swing mahupun Baby Story Hour
Keadilan dan saksama di kesan!

Going Out

1st baby: The first time you leave your baby with a sitter, you call home 5 times.
2nd baby: Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.
3rd baby: You leave instructions for the sitter to call only if she sees blood.

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Mommy Luna : Haha, saya memang jarang call pengasuh kecuali jika ada apa apa. Dan nervous bila nombor pengasuh tertera di handphone sebab mungkin ada apa apa?

At Home

1st baby: You spend a good bit of every day just gazing at the baby.
2nd baby: You spend a bit of every day watching to be sure your older child isn’t squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.
3rd baby: You spend a little bit of every day hiding from the children.

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Mommy Luna : Hahaha (aduihla..)
Saya melihat anak anak saya dengan ‘pandangan’ yang dalam
Setiap anak anak
Biarpun anda nombor 1, nombor 2 atau seterusnya
Melihat anda membesar dan mula pandaikan sesuatu.. They are worth my time!

Swallowing a coin

1st child: When first child swallows a coin, you rush the child to the hospital and demand x-rays.
2nd child: When 2nd child swallows a coin, you carefully watch for coin to pass.
3rd child: When 3rd child swallows a coin you deduct it from his allowance!!

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Hahaha..Minta dijauhkan tertelan siling mahupun apa apa insiden lain
Tapi anak pertama, memang gabra bila dia demam mahupun muntah
Yang kedua, sempat lagi google dan ke klinik hanya jika perlu

Pass this on to everyone you know who has children…or everyone who KNOWS someone who has had children… (the older the mother, the funnier this is!)

Zuriat pertama kami, Ammar Zikry
Semoga dia menyayangi adik adiknya dan ada sedikit ingatan untuk orang tuanya yang akan tua ini..uhuk uhuk

Ammar Dzakwan yang mudah dijaga sebab selalu buat ‘kerja sendiri’
Awak pun akan jadi penolong ketua
(Bibir luka sebab baru lepas jatuh semasa buat ‘kerja sendiri’) hihi..

Persamaan anak pertama, kedua dan seterusnya oleh saya?
Saya mahu diberi peluang mengandung dan menyusukan mereka
Terima kasih Allah, kasih sayangmu luas tak pernah surut buat kami
Terima kasih abang, dalam coceh coceh mulut mommy berleter, sebenarnya sidia cuma mahukan perhatian sahaja..ekeke

Order baju menyusu sempena hari raya,m dari link ini

Nota Mommy Luna : 2 anak, 2 kisah yang hampir sama tapi tak serupa kan?

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